From the evolution of Afternoon Tea (High Tea) it was never just about the food, it was about the experience. When the Duchess of Bedford codified High Tea by calling for a cup of tea and snack to be served in her bedroom to tide her over until dinner, and subsequently began to invite her friends to share in this afternoon ritual it was more than just to sate her hunger.

Women, particularly wealthy women were not seen regularly in public which meant that social gatherings for women were by necessity held in the home. While escorted women were able to meet in public venues the watchful ears and eyes of family members, spouses and event restaurant personnel would necessarily quell discussion of any sensitive matters that might have been most eager to share with friends. And so gathering in private homes for tea and conversation quickly became a pastime for Britain’s women.

Afternoon tea moved from private boudoirs and small drawing rooms into larger drawing rooms and the hall, the centre of a Victorian home. Games were often played and parties organised. The occasions were geared towards women, although in some circumstances eligible bachelors were invited.The art of using proper equipment and etiquette were central to the Victorian integration of the meal, and some still are to this day.

The art of using proper equipment and etiquette were central to the Victorian integration of the meal, and some still are to this day.

Here is our How To Tips & Tricks to curate a High Tea Experience in your home.

High tea is a delightful and sophisticated way to enjoy an afternoon with friends or to treat yourself to a touch of luxury. Recreating this experience at home allows for a personalized and intimate gathering. Here's how to create a high tea experience that will impress and delight your guests. with The High Tea Mistress Tips & Tricks/

1. Set the Scene

Create an elegant ambiance by setting the table with a beautiful tablecloth, fine china, and fresh flowers. Tablecloths, you don’t even actually need to use a tablecloth., fabric draping, rugs, vintage handkerchiefs or doilies are all options we have used in our tablescapes. Use delicate teacups, saucers, and tiered cake stands to add a touch of refinement. Check out your local op shop for some some fine bone china crockery, it doesn’t even have to match, or raid your Mum or Grandmother’s china cabinet. Don;t forget the playlist, scent and lighting to add to the ultimate experience.

2. Select the Tea

Offer a selection of high-quality loose-leaf teas, such as Earl Grey, Darjeeling, and herbal blends. Provide a variety of milk, lemon slices, and a sugar bowl for guests to customize their tea to their liking.

3. Savory and Sweet Selections

Prepare an assortment of finger sandwiches with classic fillings like cucumber, smoked salmon, and egg salad. Complement these savory bites with a selection of sweet treats, including scones with clotted cream and jam, miniature pastries, and delicate cakes.

4. Attention to Detail

Pay attention to the small details that make a high tea experience memorable. Garnish dishes with fresh herbs, use decorative doilies, and consider including personalized name cards for each guest.

5. Finishing Touches

Provide a selection of sparkling wine or champagne to add a celebratory touch to the occasion. Additionally, consider offering a small parting gift, such as individually wrapped tea blends or gourmet chocolates, as a thank-you gesture.
By following these steps, you can create a high tea experience at home that mirrors the elegance and charm of a traditional high tea service. With careful attention to detail and a focus on creating a warm and inviting atmosphere, your guests are sure to be impressed and thoroughly enjoy the experience.hich I could curate vases upon vases of florals. In the past however I have found ways to get around this but either using what I have in my garden, whether it be si